ARGH.

[elly427]

When you arrive home after a long day and the roommate who was supposed to be going out and leaving the house to you all night says "I changed my mind, I've invited 7 people over for dinner, they'll be here in half an hour, do you mind?"and you domind, what do you say?

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[bijoux.livejournal.com]

You say that you do mind and that you would prefer it if her friends did not come over as you've had a tiring day, but as that is probably impossible at the moment, that the next time she does invite a group of people over, would she mind clearing it with you like a day in advance, because common courtesy people omg.

:)

[lisayaeger.livejournal.com]

I'm sure I would say "fine" but not really mean it, and then I'd be grouchy! But probably end up having a good time in the end. Either that or just stay in my room and play online!

[elly427.livejournal.com]

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I AM DOING. Except I must socialize as well, because they are people who, if not friends, are people I know.

*loves Lisa*

[elly427.livejournal.com]

Ack! Conflict!

This is what I should do, but alas, I am a pushover.

[bijoux.livejournal.com]

Then you will just have a suck it up :)

Still, you might enjoy having the people over. They can cheer you up and be noisy and merry and fun.

[cheekygal.livejournal.com]

You say, "Well, you can't uninvite them at this point. Next time, check with me first, okay?"

And leave all the cleanup to her.

[lisayaeger.livejournal.com]

*smooch and loves*

It's just who we are...

;-)

[mrv3000.livejournal.com]

Bring it up to her again, telling her that what she did was extremely uncool. If you don't address this, she'll do it again which will lead to more resentment...

[million-moments.livejournal.com]

Kill, kill, kill, die, die, die.